The fundamental core of ACT is based on accepting life experiences as they occur, without trying to always evaluate, analyze, or change them.
The word acceptance has different meanings. In ACT therapy, acceptance is about acknowledging the way things are at this particular moment in time. You are acknowledging what is.
That doesn’t mean that you have to agree with your circumstances, like them, think they are okay or hope that they will always be the way they are right now. It is about acknowledging what is happening in the present without judging it as being good or bad.
By acknowledging what is happening at the moment without judgment, you can then objectively determine what course of action to take moving forward. This will help you move away from feeling paralyzed by frustration about certain situations or circumstances and focus more on pathways toward healing.
Acceptance isn’t an admission of failure or defeat; it is the first step toward success. Once you accept what is happening to you, you then have the power to build an effective response to the situation.
One way acceptance is developed by learning mindfulness exercises. The purpose of mindfulness exercises is to help you build a more compassionate relationship with your own difficult life experiences.
The goal is to allow yourself to free your mind from obsessive negative thinking about past events so you can embrace the peace of mind which enables you to heal.
This is achieved through acceptance and direction. First, you acknowledge what is happening and accept it. Then, you commit to thinking in a positive direction so you can move forward with your life and not continually dwell on the past.